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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! In this situation, who was insensitive? NSFW situation ahead October 7, 8: My ex-girlfriend would wake herself up nearly every morning by masturbating.
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It bothered me mainly because it woke me up an masterbating or two before my alarm and I had a hard time falling asleep afterward. She never brought it up to me, it was exgirlfriends I noticed after we moved in together.
When my schedule changed and made getting enough sleep more of a priority, I talked to her about it, explaining nudedesimaid it was waking me up. She shut down the conversation, claiming I was shaming her for something totally normal.
I explained that masturbation didn't bother me but it did make me feel awkward because Exgirlfriends wasn't sure what I was supposed to do apparently not wake up. However, I do feel like masturbation is a solo activity unless otherwise agreed upon with the other person. FWIW, I'm a lesbian who was enjoyed many a masterbating masturbation session with partners.